Re-thinking

For awhile now, Brandon and I have been thinking that we have the perfect spot on our patio for a firepit. This is the one I have found that I think I want: Isn't it pretty?

But after the last couple of nights, I am seriously re-thinking this particular want. See, we borrowed a similar firepit for the party (and forgot to light it, dang!). So we fired it up on Sunday evening and roasted marshmallows. The kids got a little crazy. But later, we had the owners of said firepit over and the four adults had a marvelous time chatting around a merrily blazing fire (made up of baseboards, of all things). All was good with the world.
Tonight, we decided to have hotdogs for dinner and Sam, Julia and Amanda (acquired in a kid-trade for Dan and Olivia) thought it would be SO cool to cook their hotdogs over the fire. This leads me to why I am re-thinking wanting one of these babies: those dang kids couldn't keep their sticks in the fire and I got really sick of yelling at them to stop waving them around and trying to burn each other. I think the whole idea of a firepit on the patio is just too much work. Which makes me sad because I REALLY enjoyed sitting around in the cool weather warming myself by that fire. All the best of camping without all the worst of camping (meaning I really love my modern conveniences and my bed, BUT I also love a campfire). Or maybe I could figure out a way to trade the firepit for the kids... Any takers?

Murder at the Deadwood Saloon

We had such a great time in the Old West! Deadwood was definitely the place to be, except for maybe the guy who got murdered! (I won't spill the beans in case someone wants to do this party in the future). The night was filled with lots of great costumes, acting and food. It was a riot to see some of our usually reserved friends really step it up and get into character. Most memorable for me was Marianne as a bandit, Brenda and Emily as saloon girls, Dave as the Federal Marshall (with quite the accent) and Matt (a member of the Bishopric) as an outlaw. April definitely wasn't a stuffed shirt (but she did stuff other articles of clothing).The quickly disappearing and reappearing mustaches on most of the men were quite entertaining. Billy the Bartender (Mike) did a great job of serving us (root)beer and what we had on "tap" (water). The best line of the night goes to David, a businessman from the East, who apologized for being late because their "wagon caught on fire". (In real life, for those who don't know, their moving trailer caught on fire when they moved here about 2 months ago). Our dead guy took a while to stay dead: the poor Marshall had to keep moving the tape outline to accommodate the corpse who couldn't decide which position to lay in.We had it all: from the snooty saloon owners and the sheriff who likes to be bribed, to the spoiled rich daughter of the rich investors, to the Southern Belle with an awesome dress and a hat a mile wide. Gamblers and outlaws ruled the day and someone took justice into their own hands before the night was through, but in the end it was all in good fun and we had a rip-roarin' good time!

I have to say, doesn't Brandon look pretty good with that mustache?

Thankful Thursday

Today, I am thankful for my husband (btw, so is my friend Adrian. You can read why she is here.) Anyway, I am thankful that Brandon is such an easy going, supportive kind of fella. See, the thing is, last year I talked him into having a murder mystery party, with a pirate theme. We had a good time, but as he said, it just wasn't really his thing (I think most of the male participants would agree). So guess what we are doing on Saturday? Yep, having another one!

This one is a western theme complete with cowboys, sheriffs, saloon girls, poker players and outlaws. Brandon is playing the banker, and I am his wife. I'm sure we'll have a good time. I appreciate the fact that he is willing to go along with something that I think is fun, even if it means dressing up and acting a part. I am so lucky to have him! (I hope he's not the one that gets murdered...)

Beautiful New York

We had a MARVELOUS time in New York state. It was incredibly beautiful and chilly (which was a really nice change). It was a little rainy, but we don't get a lot of rain, so we enjoyed that, too. It was GREAT to be away from the kids for a few days, and it was so nice to sleep in until we woke up, and then not get out of bed until we felt like it. We enjoyed each other's company, and he even held my hand whenever we were walking somewhere. It was so nice not to be rushing around, and it was nice to be a couple! Here are some pictures: We went to some caverns just west of Albany before we drove up to the Adirondacks. The caverns were really cool (literally, too!) This was called the "Bronze Room" and was really pretty. The picture doesn't show all the beautiful colors. We spent a LOT of time driving (500+ miles), but it was good driving. There was no one in the backseat picking a fight with someone else or whining or anything. A very typical view of the Adirondacks. There were lakes everywhere. In one spot, the lakes were numbered instead of named. "I have a cabin on Fourth Lake, how about you?" Once in Lake Placid, we took a tour of a couple of Olympic sites. This is looking down from the top of the 120 meter ski jumping tower. It was REALLY high! This is looking up at the same tower. We saw a guy practicing. I think he was about 14. It was amazing to watch in person. This is looking over the Bobsled course. Aren't those colors amazing? This is what we would have looked like if we had plunked down over $100 to ride in a bobsled. In the end, we decided it wasn't worth the money, but we did enjoy watching others do it. Even though they were going over 50 mph around this turn, it is only about half as fast as a real bobsled team. This is called High Falls Gorge and was really cool. Once again, pictures don't really do it justice. It was much more awe inspiring than it looks. Looking up river from High Falls Gorge.

This is Lake George, where all the really rich people live, I think. There were some amazing homes along the lake. I think those people should donate their extra money to me.

We went on a ten mile hike on our way to the airport. This is us on the hike.

(Disclaimer: no, we did not hike the entire 10 miles, but we did go on the trail.)

I thought this was a really cool picture. Looking up from the forest floor.

And we came home to this cool sign from our biggest fans. I'm glad they missed us, I missed them, too.

Thankful Thursday

Today I am thankful that I am on vacation. Here is where I am, with my sweetie. :)

Stinkin' Cute Kids

Dan the Man: student body prez, liked by all the girls, musician extraordinaire, smarter than a 5th grader, (but would you sit up straight??). B-Olivia: way too beautiful for her own good, incredible swimmer, sweetheart (and look, she's sitting up straight!)
Sammy: toothless wonder, high-energy tornado, but with the softest heart of all (and cute dimples!) Julia (little stuff): LOUD, silly sense of humor, can't decide if she wants to be a big kid or mom's little one still (life should be so simple, right?)

Thankful Thursday

Today I am thankful for...

1. My 12 year old son. He is such a good kid. He sets a good example, he makes good choices, he respects and honors his parents, he is patient with his younger siblings, he is smart and he applies himself, he is an awesome musician, he excels at anything he tries, and he is worthy to become a Priesthood holder on Sunday. (okay, maybe some of this was exaggeration, but I believe in the power of positive thinking...)
2. My Primary DVD is finished!!! I have been making a slide show/movie of all the Primary activities and kids to show them on Sunday after we finish our Sacrament Meeting program. It has taken a lot of time, and I'm very glad to finally have it finished (well, I still have to burn it, but the making of is all done)
3. My parents who want to come visit us and play with the kids. We look forward to their visits and are sad when they have to leave. I love to see my kids get excited about silly things (No Peek-y card game, especially), it makes me remember my Grandma and how special the relationship can be between generations.
4. Brandon, who folded ALL the towels I washed today (several loads!) without being asked and as a surprise. It was a really good surprise. I'm easily pleased...

The Five

Tagged by my friend Heidi...

10 years ago I...
had 2 kids 2 and younger
still had a current nursing license
lived in Idaho
was the skinniest of my adult life
drove a minivan

5 things on today's "to do" list:
make lunch for the kids
wash towels
buy Sam some church pants
"play" with my mom and dad
remember to take Dan to scouts

5 things I enjoy:
reading
scrapbooking
sewing
baking
going out with Brandon

5 things I would do if I were a millionaire:
go on a spending spree
pay off all debt
hire a maid
travel
invest, because it would kill Brandon not to

5 places I've lived:
Salt Lake City, Utah
Houston, Texas
Meridian, Idaho
Lehi, Utah
Boise, Idaho

5 jobs I've had:
car-hop at a drive-in
cabin cleaner/maid
student loan office assistant
Registered Nurse
Custom Swimsuit seamstress

I tag whoever doesn't hate tags and want to do this...

Boys and Girls!!!

Dan had a birthday party on Saturday. It was a boy/girl party. I don't think I'm ready for this!!!

Actully, it wasn't too bad. They swam in the pool, played four-square, the boys ate pizza,

and the girls ate pizza, They played water balloon volleyball, or maybe it was just water balloons...played some party games and generally had a good time.

Happy Birthday Dan! I can't believe you are 12 years old already. Where has the time gone?

Friday Date Night

I'm going on a date tonight with my sweetie. I don't know where we are going or what we are doing, but it is just the two of us and I am soooo looking forward to it. Just thought everyone should know.

Update: We didn't do anything spectacular. I hope no one was thinking that we were going to. We went to dinner, then went to the mall to see "Hancock". It was actually funnier than I expected. Then we actually ended up at Walmart to buy a four-square ball for Dan's party and some tennis balls for Brandon's Saturday morning game. Not too exciting, but lots of time without kids, which was the whole idea. Maybe next week we will do something worthy of reporting on the blog...

What Have I Been Doing?

Where have I been? What have I been doing? Why haven't I blogged lately you ask? Well, let me tell you...

• I have been sick for almost two weeks. (Really sucks and I'm ready to be better now. Any day, right?)

• The Primary Sacrament Program is a week from Sunday and I have been at several Primary meetings working out the final bugs. I have also created the world's greatest seating chart for our 110 kids. It is a thing of beauty, don't ya think?

• I have also been sleeping in--only in the hopes that I would get better sooner, not for any ulterior motive. (yeah, right).

• Today, I went to lunch at the school with Julia. Yum, hot dogs. I refrained from partaking.

I think I have also suffered some sort of wacky time loss thing, because I can't believe it is Wednesday already. Where has the week gone? I'm sure I was here for it, but I can't recall what else I have done to fill up my days. But, I assure you, I WAS busy!

Yesterday, I went with my friends MaryAnn, Marianne and Brenda to the Creating Keepsakes Scrapbook Convention. We had a great time! We told our husbands we would be back around lunch time (we left at 9:00), but we didn't actually get home until 3:00. Fun, fun.
At the show, I found a good deal on the Cricut DesignStudio, so I blew my budget and bought it. I LOVE IT!! I only had a couple of hours to play with it yesterday before heading off to Hawaii for a Luau (are you jealous? Actually, it was a ward party at someone's house, but it was a lot of fun). It is super easy to use, and I can already see that I will be using my Cricut a lot more than I used to. Now the only problem is that I want more cartridges! But, I will have to wait for that. Maybe Santa will bring me a couple. I made the title at the top and this one of Olivia's name.
I can't wait to experiment more and make some cool stuff!

Why Did the Chicken Cross the Road?

I am not a politics loving person, but I must follow what's going on around me enough, because the following made sense to me (and made me laugh). I got it from here. Thanks to my Ali for introducing me to another website worthy of "Daily Dose of Mirth" status.


BARACK OBAMA : The chicken crossed the road because it was time for change ! The chicken wanted change !
JOHN MC CAIN: My friends, that chicken crossed the road because he recognized the need to engage in cooperation and dialogue with all the chickens on the other side of the road.
HILLARY CLINTON: When I was First Lady, I personally helped that little chicken to cross the road. This experience makes me uniquely qualified to ensure right from Day One! that every chicken in this country gets the chance it deserves to cross the road. But then, this really isn’t about me.
GEORGE W. BUSH: We don’t really care why the chicken crossed the road. We just want to know if the chicken is on our side of the road, or not. The chicken is either against us, or for us. There is no middle ground here.
DICK CHENEY: Where’s my gun?
COLIN POWELL: Now to the left of the screen, you can clearly see the satellite image of the chicken crossing the road.
BILL CLINTON: I did not cross the road with that chicken. What is your definition of chicken?
AL GORE: I invented the chicken.
JOHN KERRY: Although I voted to let the chicken cross the road, I am now against it! It was the wrong road to cross, and I was misled about the chicken’s intentions. I am not for it now, and will remain against it.
AL SHARPTON: Why are all the chickens white? We need some black chickens.
DR. PHIL: The problem we have here is that this chicken won’t realize that he must first deal with the problem on this side of the road before it goes after the problem on the other side of the road. What we need to do is help him realize how stupid he’s acting by not taking on his current problems before adding new problems.
OPRAH: Well, I understand that the chicken is having problems, which is why he wants to cross this road so bad. So instead of having the chicken learn from his mistakes and take falls, which is a part of life, I’m going to give this chicken a car so that he can just drive across the road and not live his life like the rest of the chickens.
ANDERSON COOPER, CNN: We have reason to believe there is a chicken, but we have not yet been allowed to have access to the other side of the road.
NANCY GRACE: That chicken crossed the road because he’s guilty ! You can see it in his eyes and the way he walks.
PAT BUCHANAN: To steal the job of a decent, hardworking American.
MARTHA STEWART: No one called me to warn me which way that chicken was going. I had a standing order at the Farmer’s Market to sell my eggs when the price dropped to a certain level. No little bird gave me any insider information.
DR SEUSS: Did the chicken cross the road? Did he cross it with a toad? Yes, the chicken crossed the road, but why it crossed I’ve not been told.
ERNEST HEMINGWAY: To die in the rain, alone.
GRANDPA: In my day we didn’t ask why the chicken crossed the road. Somebody told us the chicken crossed the road, and that was good enough.
BARBARA WALTERS: Isn’t that interesting? In a few moments, we will be listening to the chicken tell, for the first time, the heart warming story of how it experienced a serious case of molting, and went on to accomplish its lifelong dream of crossing the road.
ARISTOTLE: It is the nature of chickens to cross the road.
JOHN LENNON: Imagine all the chickens in the world crossing roads together, in peace.
BILL GATES: I have just released eChicken2008, which will not only cross roads, but will lay eggs, file your important documents, and balance your checkbook. Internet Explorer is an integral part of eChicken2008. This new platform is much more stable and will never reboot.
ALBERT EINSTEIN: Did the chicken really cross the road, or did the road move beneath the chicken?
COLONEL SANDERS: Did I miss one?

Thankful Thursday

I've been thinking about this all day, and here's what I'm thankful for today:

• Sunshine, especially in the mornings
• Music, especially music played by my kids
• School, especially when my kids are at it
• My sister, who makes me laugh everyday

Not very earth-shattering, but then, I can't always be incredibly deep and profound, ya know.

An Epidemic

We seem to have an epidemic around here: Tooth loss. I'm not sure what has brought it on, but I have many theories. It could be:

• Poor diet
  
• Inadequate sleep
  
• Violent living conditions
  
• Heredity

Of course, Sam brought his tooth home from school in the best possible way: inside his sand filled shoe. Now I'm wondering if the Tooth Fairy will care that the tooth is entirely filled with sand. Hmmmm...

Dreams Come True

Yesterday, my dreams came true. Yep, you guessed it: my kids got along with each other and behaved themselves in public! Shocking, but true.

Here's how it happened: After school, they came in the door all hot and sweaty (still 100+ degrees outside) and they DIDN'T FIGHT!!! They took off their shoes (dumping sand all over the carpet), got a snack, turned on the brain-drain (TV) and sat themselves down without a push, shove, hit or an angry word. All of a sudden, Olivia got up and started practicing piano. Miracle! Eventually (about 5 minutes later), someone asked if they could play with friends. Now, Sunday was a TERRIBLE day at our house--full of fists, kicks, mean words, screaming, tears, etc, etc. So I had to tell them all that there would be no friends this week until they could learn to get along with each other, after all, they will be brothers and sisters for ETERNITY! I expected the usual after my pronouncement on no friends, but they surprised me again: they were calm. I had to sit down.

Since everything was going so well, I told the boys it was time for a haircut. With only minimal grumbling, they got their shoes and we headed off to Great Clips. Usually, this store brings out the beast in Sam. However, the stars were aligned and both Dan and Sam were good. I don't mean perfect--there were a few pokes and pushes, but they were GOOD. An hour and two haircuts later, we came home to two calm, collected girls (who never once called me to complain about each other).

Since I was not feeling super good (sore throat), I didn't make dinner. When Brandon got home, we decided to go out to a real restaurant, not fast food. This is usually a very risky undertaking, but I was hopeful that this time would be different. Car trips are usually fraught (is that a word?) with kicks, hits, screaming, annoying singing or whistling, yelling, etc., etc. However, those stars were still aligned and I looked in my rearview mirror to see Dan and Olivia sitting side by side (what?) laughing and waving their arms around whilst (I like that word) listening to his MP3 player together. Meanwhile, Sam and Julia were sharing the middle row and were SILENT. I almost drove off the road.

We arrived at the restaurant (chosen because they give you two free kids meals for each adult meal you buy on Monday--smokin' deal!). The kids calmly walked to our table, didn't fight over who sat where and then proceeded to quietly color and talk until their food arrived. Then, they actually ATE! That never happens! We didn't have a single spilled drink, a fit over food, and they shared off of each other's plates (Julia got carrot sticks--everyone wanted some, and she SHARED willingly!!) It was amazing.

Then came the trip home. Olivia sat between Sam and Julia and helped them finish the coloring books so kindly provided by the restaurant. She was patient, they were eager for her help and there was not one single nasty thing said. And from the backseat: silence. No sarcasm. Yippee!

Once home, they got in jammies without a fight, we read some stories without a fight, and I duly rewarded them for their awesome behavior with candy, as all good moms should. I told them that they had made my dreams come true and I was rewarded yet again with HUGE smiles. Motherhood is worth it at times like that.

Now, what can I do to make this happen EVERYDAY??

Another One

We have another toothless wonder in our house:

Julia's first tooth came out at her friend's house today. She had to call to tell me all about it, she was so excited! Now, I just hope the Tooth Fairy remembers to come tonight and doesn't forget like she did a couple of weeks ago when Sam lost a tooth! Who pays that Tooth Fairy, anyway?

Tagged

Thanks to my buddy Adrian for this.



4 Random Things I Like About my Husband:

He's bald (call me weird--as least it's not a comb-over)

He's very creative

He's a hard worker

He plays with the kids



4 Movies That I Can Watch More Than Once:

Return to Me

Stardust

Pride and Prejudice (the one with Colin Firth)

Lord of the Rings



4 TV Shows that I Watch:

House

Lost

Wipeout

Drake & Josh (okay, I don't really watch it, but my kids do and I see parts of it all the time)



4 Places I've Been:

Spain

Niagara Falls

Caribbean (Jamaica, Grand Cayman, Cozumel)

Albuquerque



or, if you want to talk about where I've been today:

Walmart

Albertson's

Chiropractor

Sprouts



4 People Who Email Me Regularly:

Brandon

Synchro coaches

Library (I like to put books on hold)

Blogger (to let me know someone loves me and I have a comment!!!)



4 Favorite Foods:

Chicken (especially Prickly Pear Chicken)

Pasta

Watermelon

Diet Coke (does that count as a food?)



4 Places I Would Like to Visit:

Prince Edward Island (I've decided I have to go with Adrian)

New York City

Denver (to see my buddy Angela)

Rocky Point, Mexico



4 Things I'm Looking Forward to in the Next Year:

Vacation with Brandon next month

Visit from family later this month

Cooler weather

???



4 People I Tag:

Allison

Trisha

Marianne

Yvette

Thankful Thursday

Today I am thankful for:

• My comfy bed. I love my bed, sometimes so much that's it's hard to get out of it in the mornings. I especially love my bed after I've had to sleep somewhere else. Typing this makes me want to go back to my lovely bed. Fighting the temptation...
• Good books. I love to read. I currently have about four books from the libarary that are lined up on the shelf waiting for me to get to them. I started one last night called "The Sugar Queen" and it's very good so far. Just the right amount of unrealistic-ness to make me feel like I have escaped my life for a few hours.
• Forgiveness. I am grateful that those around me are willing to forgive me when I've treated them badly or done something I shouldn't. I hope that I, too, am always willing to forgive and get things back to the way they should be.
• This week, I'm grateful that Sam has behaved himself in school and tried to at home. I've seen a difference in his behavior and it gives me hope. Now, if I could just get the other kids to decide it's cool to be nice...

The Man Rules

Check out this hilarious post on my sister's blog. It is a must read!