Missing

Today I called 911 for the first time in my life. I thought I had lost this...

We found him.

I cried alot.

I'm so thankful.

Life wouldn't be the same without him.

Happy Birthday to Olivia, who turned 11 on Tuesday. We spent most of the weekend celebrating the big day in one fashion or another (and it still wasn't enough for her!) Here's the rundown...

Friday she got a card and money in the mail from Grandma and Grandpa Ekberg.

Saturday we went to the store, and she got to pick out a new bike.Sunday she got to pick what we had for dinner (Cantonese Chicken) and we sang to her in Primary.

Monday I made a cake (chocolate with chocolate frosting and sprinkles), we watched a movie as a family (Get Smart) and we went out to dinner at Chili's.

Tuesday, we wished her happy birthday oodles of times, she got a necklace and "Olivia" bag in the mail from Grandma Anne and Grandpa Vee, she got a BUNCH of phone calls, we had some friends over to swim AND she picked what we had for dinner (scones and fruit).

Wednesday at synchro practice they sang "Happy Birthday" to her and a couple of her friends gave her presents.

I wish my birthday could last almost a whole week! Lucky girl!

Father & Sons Campout

Last weekend while Olivia and I were at her synchro meet, Brandon took the three* boys camping.

The four of them took a camera along, but I think Sam and Julia took most of the pictures. I hear they had a good time, but I haven't heard a lot of details. I know there was a fun swing, and lots of dirt, and a campfire, but other than that I've had to use my imagination. Here's what I think happened:

They were warmly welcomed to camp......after paying a bribe. Whereupon, they proceeded to fit right in (pink, really?!?)But, soon enough, trouble** ensued......and they had to run for it, away from an angry mob with a frisbee.

They high-tailed it out of there, past the lone (?) cactus,

but then something went wrong and the world started spinning!

But, never fear, they were saved from all peril by the superhero known as "Surly Almost-Teenager".

All is well with the world.

*Okay, we really only have two boys, but Julia was given the option of camping or going to the synchro meet. She chose camping with the boys. Since it was 105 degrees, I think I would have chosen it, too. Brandon was only given a *small* amount of grief over bringing a daughter with him. Oh well.

**Sam is usually the cause of Trouble around our house. He is a force of nature.

Hello Jr. High!

I just got back from Dan's sixth grade promotion/graduation/celebration thing. Surprisingly, it was a little sad for me. I know I'll still be going to the elementary school more than I want to for the next 6 years, but I guess deep down I'm not really ready from him to grow up. I didn't have a moments hesitation when he started kindergarten, but I'm just not ready for him to be a teenager and go to Jr. High. But, I know I can't stop it - he has grown about six inches in the last year, he thinks his voice is changing (but I think maybe he is just trying to talk in a lower register), he has armpit hair (ick!), he wears boats for shoes (size 11 1/2), he no longer thinks girls are gross, and he has interests that have nothing to do with me. I'm struggling with how to be a mom that doesn't hover and overprotect, but still has a say in what he does, who he hangs out with and what goes on in his brain. My mom was always the cool mom that all my friends wished their mom was like. I want to be that. But then again, the world is different now and I don't want him getting himself into a mess because I'm more his friend than his mom. How do I make him realize that the rules still apply to him and that there are consequences, without being the kind of mom that he wants to get away from? Then again, maybe he'll figure it all out on his own and I'm worrying for nothing. After all, he is a good kid, and I'm very proud of him.

On a funny note, when Ms. Wilson (the teacher over Student Council) was introducing the officers from this year, she called up each of the four girls and gave them their certificate, then she introduced Dan by calling him "the stud muffin, Mr. Macho, who is always surrounded by girls". It made me laugh, and it embarrassed Dan. I'm glad he got a little embarrassed, and I'm glad it wasn't by me!

Congrats on being a successful sixth grader, and just make sure you continue to do your best! I'm proud of you, and I love you, Dan.

Regional Synchro Meet

Olivia's Regional Synchro meet was this past Friday and Saturday. She swam a duet, a trio and team. Unfortunately, she got sick earlier in the week and wasn't at her best. However, she pulled it together well enough to compete, and all three of her routines did well enough to go on to Nationals next month in Florida. A pretty big accomplishment considering that she almost passed out getting out of the pool after her team swim. She was so dizzy I had to carry her to the car, but she was mostly worried about how many people stared at her. Poor thing. This is what she looks like today...

I know she REALLY doesn't feel good, because she hasn't even wanted to expend the energy to get the knox out of her hair or take the icky synchro makeup off. Usually, those are the very first things she does when she gets home. Hopefully, she'll feel better soon. Poor Olivia.

Mother of the Year

Check out this video of me winning the Mother of the Year award!!!

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Just for you Ali, here is a new post.

Life at the Ekbergs...

Only 10 days of school left.

Sam lost a tooth. I bought it from him so the Tooth Fairy wouldn't have to make the trip to our house. I like that plan.

Julia had a meltdown getting to school one day. She ran after me out the door, followed by the principal, who dragged her back in kicking and screaming. Fun times.

I tweaked my back tying a quilt. I moved like an old woman for a couple of days. And I didn't get any sympathy. Boo hoo.

Watershow was last Saturday. It was so well attended, there was no where to park. But, we raised lots of money!

Olivia ran for Student Body President. Didn't win, but that's okay with her.

Sam needs a haircut.

It hit 100 degrees yesterday, 103 today, 105 tomorrow.

Kids have been swimming after school a lot.

Grandma Anne and Grandpa Vee came for a visit. Sam made them play games with him every afternoon. No Peekie, anyone?

Dan had his last Strings concert. He rocked the electric bass!

Brandon got a pool table.

Synchro State Competition

Olivia just competed in the Arizona State Synchro competition. This is the big qualifying meet for Regionals next month. It was an awesome weekend!

She took third place in figures (her lowest finish this year, but she's happy with it. Especially since 2 1/2 weeks ago, she couldn't walk or swim because her knee was injured).

She also swam a duet and a trio. Both took FIRST PLACE!!! So exciting!
Her team finished in second place, so all three of her routines will go on to Regionals, and (keep your fingers crossed), Nationals.

Olivia, Kaylee, Jenna and Addisyn

We shared the trip with some fun synchro friends, and we had a great time getting sunburned, windburned, sleep deprived, dehydrated and knoxed together.

If you'd like to see these awesome girls swim, come to the Watershow on May 2!!! It's going to be great, and it's so much fun to watch.

Just Julia

Note: Last the best of all the game.

How do I love Julia?

Let me count the ways...1. She loves to snuggle with me in the mornings. And she fits so perfectly in my arms.

2. She is my buddy. She always wants to go with me. I will never be friendless as long as Julia is around.

3. She loves me to tuck her in at night. And she always gives me hugs and kisses. Even if I've not been very nice or patient.

4. She instantly forgives me (see above). And she doesn't hold a grudge. It's nice to know that I have her unconditional love. I'm glad she's an example to me. I hope to be better at this.

5. She is willing to try new things. Unlike her siblings. I can always count on Julia to try whatever I have made for dinner. Most of the time, she likes it! That doesn't mean she'll eat it again, but she tries it. And I appreciate that.

6. She leaves me notes and presents. Especially when she sees that I'm having a bad day.

7. She wants to help me with whatever I'm doing. Sometimes, I'm not very patient, but I know I always have a willing helper if I want it.

8. She is content to be a home-body. She doesn't constantly demand to play with friends, which I will forever be grateful for.

9. She loves to snuggle. (Did I already say that?) But really, she loves to snuggle. And I love to hold her. Soon, she'll be too big, so I think I better take advantage while I still can.

10. She completes our family. I needed her, and I'm so glad that Heavenly Father sent her to me. Love you, Little One.

Sam the Sweet

Note: #3 of 4. Just because I can.

Sam the Sweet

(I know it doesn't make sense on first thought, but really, he is very sweet underneath it all)

Oh, my Sam-O. What would I do without you? What can I do with you?

I love you so much, but you can make me so crazy at the same time. Just when I think you have finally done something so horrible that I'll be mad at you forever, you ask for a hug, or you climb on my lap, or you give me a present. How can anyone stay mad?

You are so full of energy, so full of life. You live every moment to the fullest, and you don't want anyone telling you that you can't do something. I believe that you will do great things in this life. I believe you will be an important person, to more than just your family.

You are a smart little cookie, and I think a lot of people underestimate you, including me at times. It amazes me when you read my books to me, or figure out really complex math problems, or memorize complete TV shows.

You are creative. You have an amazing imagination, and I love to see it come out when you play with Julia. I love when you share and encourage others. I've seen you do it, so I know you can. Especially with younger kids. It makes everyone happy.

I love your dimples. Kissable.

I love each of my children, but I had a special experience with you, Sam, when you were very small. Nothing can ever make me stop loving you. Nothing.

Olivia the Original

Note: second of four "why I love my kids" posts. Really, just letters to my kids. Or whatever.

Why I love Olivia:

You are beautiful. Don't ever let anyone make you feel you aren't. But what I really love is that you are beautiful on the inside, too. You are always so concerned with how everyone else is feeling. You want to be everyone's friend. You want everyone to be happy and content.
You are smart and funny. You always try your hardest, and you succeed. If you don't understand something, you aren't afraid to ask for help. You love to learn, and you do well in school. And you love to read (just like me).

You are a talented synchronized swimmer. I love to watch you. You are always happy in the water, and it shows in your swimming. You have such confidence in the water. I think you truly believe that nothing is impossible. You can accomplish anything you want, in any area of your life if you believe it is possible.

You are a patient big sister. I love that you will play with Julia and Sam, and that you will try to find ways to interact with them that make everyone happy. You are always willing to go along with crazy ideas because you are willing to put their happiness ahead of your own at times.

You always want to give me hugs and spend time with me. I appreciate this, even though sometimes I think I don't have the time or patience for it. Thanks for making me realize that we all need moments of closeness and that a hug makes almost any day just a little bit better. I love you so much, my B.

Dan the Man

Note: I have decided to spend a day reflecting on what I love about each of my children. So, starting with the oldest...

Dan the Man

• I love that you are so stinkin' cute! I know you probably don't want to hear you mom say that, but you are very handsome. (But I'm sorry you got my nose).

• I love that you are responsible. I know that when I leave you in charge nothing horrible will happen. That's not to say that stuff won't be messed up, dirty or that there won't be fights, but I know that when it's all said and done, everyone will be safe.
  
  
• I love that you are smart. And that you know it's cool to be smart. I wish you would always try to do your very best and challenge yourself. But, I also know that you need time to just "hang" with friends and be a kid.

• I love that you are ambitious. And that you are a leader. If it were up to me, I would have discouraged you from running for Student Body President last year, because I didn't want you to be hurt if you didn't win. But you did win, and you have handled it wonderfully. I'm grateful that you haven't let it go to your head, that you are still friends with everyone and that you never make anyone feel badly because they maybe aren't as smart or popular as you are.

• I love that you are musical. And that you fill our house with music on a regular basis. I wish that you would always find joy in this, because it brings me joy, too. I'm so proud of the job you did in District Honor Orchestra. I wanted to stand up and make sure everyone knew that you were my son.

• I love that you are inquisitive. As much as I have dreaded the "mod"ing of your dart gun, it makes me proud to see what you can do. Now, just don't shoot your brother.

• I love that you like to play games and spend time with your family. Family is important, if for no other reason than that we will always love you no matter what. You are an important and vital part of us, and we would be lost without you. Love you, Dan.
  

Catch-up

Wow, where have the days gone? Here's a short recap of the last two weeks:

• The kids went back to school after spring break. Happy day.
• We planted a garden (tomatoes and strawberries). Sam wants to know when there will be strawberries to eat. If not today, tomorrow?
• Olivia tweaked her knee at practice on Tuesday (24th). Mom ignored her complaints.
• Dan started District Honor Orchestra practices. Thank goodness for carpools.
• Julia started synchro again. Yeah!
• Went to a RS take and bake. Still trying to work up the courage to serve it to my family. I'm not anxious to hear "what's that green stuff?"
• Olivia apparently really hurt her knee. Darn. Spent Friday at the doctor office and X-rays, then trying to find crutches (or as Sam wanted to call them: crotches).
• Brandon helped a couple of people move. Good man.
• We went out to dinner and a movie on Saturday. Ran into friends at Friday's, that was fun!
• Went to physical therapy with Olivia. Still trying to figure out the extent of injury and if she'll be able to swim at State (2 1/2 weeks away. Pray.)
• Sam has been home from school sick for a couple of days. Sad. But he likes to cuddle when he's sick. Happy.
• Been trying to get some sewing done, but it slow going with everything else that has happened.

I'm sure that there is more that has happened, but I can't recall. I think my brain is fuzzy. Or asleep. Or I've watched too many animated movies with Sam in the last couple of days. Or something...

Spring Break

Spring Break...

We had great plans.

Scheduled out the week full of fun things to do...

...and didn't do any of them.

We did:

Climb to the Hole in the Rock at Papago Park

Doesn't Dan look so excited to be with his family? It was lots of fun to have him with us. Julia took lots of pictures of herself. Some were actually quite good. Some were a tad bit disturbing.

What else we did (but have no photographic proof of):

Swimming in the freezing cold pool (not me, of course)

Lots friends over lots of days.

Visited the library and checked out 1 book for every 5 movies (or something like that)

Played trains (thanks Travis!)

Extra synchro practices

Went to the movies (Bolt) Oh yeah, and Dan saw Knowing

Tried to go bowling, but too many senior citizens were present (no lanes available)

Played at the park

Slept in (at least I did, Sam and Julia still got up at 6:30)

We are all ready for school to start again tomorrow. At least, that's what I keep telling the kids. You know, subliminal messages: You love school, you want to go to school, you will not miss mom, you don't want to sleep in, you love school, you can't wait to have homework again, you love school.

I'm pretty sure it's working.

But I'll let you know tomorrow.

Silly Sudsy Siblings

Sometimes I forget that Sam and Julia are still little kids. They love to play together and usually come up with some pretty elaborate make-believe or some pretty amazing creative endeavors. Sometimes, though, they are just plain silly, as they were tonight. This was supposed to be a quick bath before bed, but turned into a heyday of bubbles and giggles. I even got a picture of their little bottoms (due to their insistence), but I'll hang onto that picture for future blackmail.

Thanks for reminding me that laughter is a GOOD thing!

Bragging

I just have to brag about my oldest for a moment. Yesterday, he auditioned for District Honor Orchestra. He did this last year also, and made it in. So he was pretty sure he would make it in this year. Not only did he make it, but he is 1st chair bass! He was pretty excited when he found out, and I think he should be. As he so *humbly* put it, "that means I'm the best bass player in the whole school district!" Way to go, Dan!

P.S. He even let me hug him!

Jrnimy

Brandon arrived home safe and sound from Germany earlier this week. He is still a little weird, though. He actually gets up at 4:00 in the morning and goes to work because he is awake. Hasn't he ever heard of rolling back over and going back to sleep? I guess he's getting stuff done at work, but the downside is that he is ready for bed at 8:30 at night. I hope his body figures this out soon.

Three of the four kids made posters for him (Dan chose not to participate). Sam's poster was quite entertaining. (I'm kicking myself that I didn't get a picture of it). He made sure that Dad knew he had been in "Jrnimy" and he also drew lots of noses. I'm not sure why. One was REALLY big, one had "blud" coming out of it, and their were lots of smaller ones as well. What's with the nose obsession? Who knows how the brain of Sam works, anyway?

Brandon had a good time, and managed to do a little sightseeing. And he brought home REAL German chocolate, yummy! Here's a few pictures (but I have no idea what they are for the most part, so just enjoy the European-ness of them!)

Ordering breakfast: apparently the woman didn't speak English and Brandon doesn't speak German.

The office. Worldwide headquarters of M+W Zander.

$160,000 watch. Who would pay that?!?

Ridiculously Disappointed

Brandon was supposed to come home late tonight. A couple of hours ago, the airline called to inform me that his flight from Washington D.C. to Phoenix was cancelled because of the weather. He will be coming home around noon tomorrow instead of tonight. I know it's only a half of a day longer, but I am ridiculously disappointed that I won't see him tonight. And the kids will be, too.Then again, am I sure I want this crazy guy around? Yeah, I guess I do. He is an amazing man, and having him gone has made me realize what I really have. I love him so much (craziness and all)I missed him.

It just wasn't the same without him here.

But it seems that I have missed him even more than I thought I did.

Otherwise, I would be taking this delay better. It feels like my already crappy day just got crappier. I think I need chocolate...

In Other News...

I've been super busy the last couple of weeks getting all the synchro suits, headpieces and glittering done. There was a big meet this last weekend, and I'm happy to report that I got everything finished in time (but I did pull a couple of LATE nighters in order to get it done). Final suit count this year (so far): 82

Olivia swam AWESOMELY! (Is that a word?). Her trio finished FIRST again (and by a much bigger margin), her duet improved to FOURTH place out of 19 duets (up from 8th place at the last meet). And her team improved from second to FIRST place this time!!!

In other news (because this isn't just about Olivia and synchro, right?), I took Brandon to the airport on Sunday morning for a weeklong trip to Germany. He is going to kick off something to do with Global Engineering Efficiency and because he is such an amazing man, he and his group were asked to start it off. I actually maybe know more about this, but I can't seem to make it all make sense in writing. Anyway, he will be missed a lot (but I am looking forward to having the bed to myself) I'm thinking I might make a big obnoxious sign and get balloons and stand in the airport and make a big scene next Monday. Sounds fun.

I had sick kids home all last week. I'm glad they are all back at school now. It's nice to have my days to myself once again.

This week, I am planning on doing a little cleaning and dejunking. And on that note, Olivia's team is having a rummage sale fundraiser on Saturday. If any of you are interesting in stopping by, it will be at Brimhall Jr. High on Saturday 2/28 from 7 am to noon.

I will also be getting ready for a Primary Activity Day on Friday afternoon. And maybe even seeing my parents, who might come to town for a funeral.

And I thought my life would be so boring when I was done sewing suits...

"I don't understand why Cupid was chosen to represent Valentine's Day. When I think about romance, the last thing on my mind is a short, chubby toddler coming at me with a weapon."
~ Author Unknown