In Other News...

I've been super busy the last couple of weeks getting all the synchro suits, headpieces and glittering done. There was a big meet this last weekend, and I'm happy to report that I got everything finished in time (but I did pull a couple of LATE nighters in order to get it done). Final suit count this year (so far): 82

Olivia swam AWESOMELY! (Is that a word?). Her trio finished FIRST again (and by a much bigger margin), her duet improved to FOURTH place out of 19 duets (up from 8th place at the last meet). And her team improved from second to FIRST place this time!!!

In other news (because this isn't just about Olivia and synchro, right?), I took Brandon to the airport on Sunday morning for a weeklong trip to Germany. He is going to kick off something to do with Global Engineering Efficiency and because he is such an amazing man, he and his group were asked to start it off. I actually maybe know more about this, but I can't seem to make it all make sense in writing. Anyway, he will be missed a lot (but I am looking forward to having the bed to myself) I'm thinking I might make a big obnoxious sign and get balloons and stand in the airport and make a big scene next Monday. Sounds fun.

I had sick kids home all last week. I'm glad they are all back at school now. It's nice to have my days to myself once again.

This week, I am planning on doing a little cleaning and dejunking. And on that note, Olivia's team is having a rummage sale fundraiser on Saturday. If any of you are interesting in stopping by, it will be at Brimhall Jr. High on Saturday 2/28 from 7 am to noon.

I will also be getting ready for a Primary Activity Day on Friday afternoon. And maybe even seeing my parents, who might come to town for a funeral.

And I thought my life would be so boring when I was done sewing suits...

"I don't understand why Cupid was chosen to represent Valentine's Day. When I think about romance, the last thing on my mind is a short, chubby toddler coming at me with a weapon."
~ Author Unknown

Homework

In a further attempt to convince certain people (you know who you are) that this blog is not just about Olivia, I give you the following snippet.

Sam was working on his homework last night, and this little story came up:

As Sam was working on finding synonyms for certain words in this story, I recalled a few months ago when Sam lost a tooth at school.
Did he bring it home in a ziploc baggie?
No.
In an envelope?
No.
In his pocket?
No.
It was in his SHOE!
It was gross.

Phase 2

Just so we all are clear on the fact that this blog is not just about Olivia, here's a funny snippet of life with Dan:

A week or so ago, we (Dan, Olivia, Brandon and me) were playing a game of Phase 10. It was pretty fun.

Dan, Olivia and I were on something like Phase 7, 8, and 9. Brandon was on Phase 2. And had been for about 8 turns.

Our scores were about 150 or so. His was something like 800.

After one round (still on Phase 2), he finally put his cards down and said he was done playing because "it's just painful to sit here".

So what does Dan do? Responds like this: "Then sit there, Dad" and points to another chair.

It was very funny. But maybe you had to be there.

Trio video

Here's the FIRST PLACE trio!!! Enjoy!

Payday

The good thoughts paid off! Thank you everybody!
Olivia had a FANTASTIC weekend! She did awesome in every event. I am so proud of her.
She finished SECOND in figures (yeah!!!), SECOND in team (yeah!!!), and FIRST in trio (YEAH, yeah, yeah!!!) Those were all in the 11-12 age group. She also finished 8th in the 13-15 age group in duet. (That was a HUGE accomplishment).
I'm not sure what she was most excited about. I'm excited about it all. And yes, she did beat the girl I was hoping she would beat--in ALL three events they both swam.

Think Good Thoughts

Olivia has a big synchro meet tomorrow and Sunday. Send your good thoughts her way! Actually, maybe you should think good thoughts for me (that I will be a good sport--but I REALLY want her to beat a certain girl.)

Suits

Some more suits:

Remember this one?

Here it is after being glittered...

Honky Tonk/Western Saloon/Cowboy (they can't decide what to call their routine).

The big star goes onto the back, too. One of the moms is going to put rhinestones on the straps and I think on the black. I'll try to get a finished picture tomorrow at the meet. This is Olivia's trio. I'm not totally happy with the end result. I don't know why. Everyone else likes it. Probably I'm just harder on myself than I should be.

I didn't get a picture of the Witch Doctor suits before I delivered them. They had this guy on them:

I'll try to get a picture tomorrow. They turned out really cute.

A morning in the life of Julia

7:00: Before she even wakes up, she murmurs in her sleep "I don't want to go to school". Then she wakes up and says it consciously.
7:05: Refuses to get dressed.
7:10: Refuses to eat breakfast.
7:15: Ties herself to her bed in the hopes that she won't have to go to school.
7:20: Still refuses to get dressed. Is presented with the choice of going to school dressed, in PJ's or in whatever state of undress she is currently in.
7:25: Still refuses to eat breakfast. Tries to hide under a blanket.
7:30: May or may not be dressed. Shoes and socks are another matter.
7:35: Siblings start getting anxious to be gone. There is much commotion in the house (and yelling)
7:40: Is invariably driven to school because otherwise everyone would be late.
7:45: Won't get out of car.
7:50: Is dragged into the front office by her mother (in her PJ's, mom, that is) and taken to her class.
7:55: Skips happily into school and enjoys herself the whole rest of the day. She loves school!

Question: Who is in charge of our mornings? And how do I get that control back?

A day in the life of me

Here's what my day has been like for way too long now:
7:30: Send kids off to school (I have gotten up and made breakfast and made sure they were wearing clean clothes since school started again in January. This is a huge step for me)
8:00: Check my email while I eat breakfast (usually something not very good for me)
8:30: Head to my dungeon (which is really a very bright yellow bedroom with a good view, but it feels like a dungeon). Sew, sew, unpick, sew, glitter, sew, design, sew, etc.
2:00-ish: Remember that I haven't eaten lunch. Eat something not very good for me.
2:45: Kids come home, take off their shoes and socks and leave them lying right in the middle of the living room. Empty backpacks and leave it in the middle of the living room. Then they fight, watch TV, play, fight, eat, fight, etc.
Meanwhile, I am sewing in the dungeon.
4:00 on most days: Take Olivia to swimming. Try suits on girls, learn the latest changes to routines and suits that I still have to make, etc.
5:00: come home and wonder what on earth we are going to have for dinner since Brandon most likely won't be home and I haven't been to the grocery store for about 2 months now.
7:00ish: Back to the dungeon for more late night sewing, glittering or whatever until I am too tired to think straight. Unfortunately, I have worked with a tired brain before and it usually ends up with more unpicking the next day.
11:00 or later: Go to bed.

Now, here's the thing. I have earned a good chunk of money sewing suits, but I'm starting to wonder if it's worth it. I'm not very good at balancing things in my life. It's all or nothing. I do this a lot. For instance, when I read a book, that's ALL I do. Read. Until I'm done. Now it's SEW. Until I'm done. But then, after I'm done, what will I do? (I also think that I do this in part to avoid things I don't like: cleaning, cooking, laundry, discipline, etc.)

I'm starting to think that my brain is a one-track brain and is incapable of focusing on more than one thing. But then, sometimes I think that I am very good at multi-tasking. I have come to the conclusion, for now, that when I find something that makes me happy in any form, I overdose on it. I think I am addicted to creating suits. I like to see something I have designed, created, embellished and loved end up being loved by the girl who it was created for. I guess deep down, I also like hearing praise over my creations. Just today, somebody said I was "famous". I don't think that's true, but I can't help but hope that at the coming swim meet, somebody will ask "who made all of those fabulous suits?"

In the grand scheme of things, it shouldn't matter to me that something I have made is important, what should matter to me is that someone I have raised is important. Right now, I'm having a hard time separating my "working self" from my "mom self". I am impatient with my children, I don't want to cook or clean for them, I let discipline and homework slide, and many other aspects of my life and theirs so that I can create something "fabulous". Shouldn't the "fabulous" that I'm creating be in my own life? Shouldn't the house, kids, husband and self come before everything else, and least sometimes? How do I make myself take time for something other that what my one-track brain has decided is most important in this moment? Where do I find the patience to tuck Sam in for the fourth time tonight? What I really want to do is yell and scream at him because he is kicking the wall, it's 9:39, and he's really tired. How do I become a good mom, and not just a good seamstress? Why is it that I can be really good at some things, and really, really bad at others? (and those are usually the more important things)

BTW, these are all rhetorical questions, I don't expect anyone to answer, or to give me a pep talk. This post is just more about self discovery than anything else.

I have a good friend who chooses one word to focus on for a whole year. Something to think about, work on, try to do better, etc. I have thought a lot about this in the last few weeks. I thought, "Okay, I'll do it too." So what word did I come up with for myself? I was thinking TRY. But then I thought that was pretty lame, because it would be an easy out. After all, I was only TRYING, and if I failed, at least I TRIED, right? So I was never brave enough to share this word with anyone (except my sister, who laughed with me about it). Tonight, I was reading this friend's blog and I saw that someone else had chosen the word BALANCE for her word. I knew right away that that's what my word and my focus needs to be. BALANCE. In everything. In what I do with my time, in what I eat, in what my priorities are, in my physical balance (I'm starting to feel old and decrepit), in dealing with my kids, in taking care of myself, in EVERYTHING. So, Adrian, I am officially choosing a word. I'm going to go write it on my mirror and try (ha ha) to have more BALANCE in everything I do. I even started by going back into Sam's room and lying down with him for a few minutes until he calmed down and we could talk about why he was so upset. (He's just really tired). So, I successfully balanced being a mom with being a blogger. Good for me. Pat on the back. Tomorrow, I will start working on the mom/swimsuit maker dilemma. A little balance at a time will be okay. At least it's something. And that's all I'm going for right now. I have a whole year to get this perfected.

Can-Can, Can You Do the Can-Can?

I've been pretty busy sewing suits the last few days. Here's what I've accomplished (in part):

Olivia's duet (Can-Can)

Hercules team (I made eight of these)

Disney medley (I made this suit design last year, and just had to make one more--mini size!)

War!

We all got nerf dart guns for Christmas. We have had several wars in the ensuing days. Even I participate (I know, I know, amazing...). Anyway, this is about how the battle goes... It starts with everyone happy and away.

Pretty soon, Julia decides that she would rather be the and she runs around gathering up darts which she then sells to the highest bidder. She is a total entrepreneur. Just kidding, she hands them out for free (as long as you are nice to her).

Somewhere along the way, decides that he has it in for me, and he hunts me down. This is about when I decide that I need to help Julia with the ammo.

The war always ends with someone (usually Olivia) in It's always the same. But we still play. Go figure...

The Simple Things

Remember the good old days when you used to make projects from stuff lying around the house, or you used to find ways to entertain yourself on school vacation days without a TV? I thought my kids didn't know anything about these grand old traditions. How wrong I was! Sam and Julia have been home today (Dan and Olivia are off with friends). They have been having so much fun together. I had a big spool that used to have elastic on it (I've used over 144 yards of elastic! Wow). Anyway, I gave the empty spool to Sam and told him to make a project. He and Julia made a kite! Here's a picture: We took it outside to fly it, but alas, there was Not a single breath of a breeze.

This was no good for Sam. He HAD to fly his kite. So, he made his own wind:

I love the look of pure on his face. Who knew that a homemade kite could be responsible for so much happiness?I'm thinking that TV should take a back seat for the whole vacation. Then again, maybe this was a one time deal and tomorrow will be fighting as usual. A mom can always dream, though...

Turn Around

For three years now, Dan has been making fun of synchro every chance he gets. I think he understands that it isn't easy, but he just can't pass up an opportunity to bug Olivia. However, the other day I was listening to some of the music I needed to design suits for. He came in and asked what I was listening to. Then he shocked me by saying that "synchro has some really cool music"! He even went so far as to download some of it on to his MP3 player. Maybe we'll convince him yet that making fun of his sister never does pay off in the end. There is one song in particular that all the kids are really enjoying. It's got a great bass beat and they have been blasting it over and over and over again. I got some video of them (mostly the boys) dancing to it. It's pretty funny. Enjoy!

Fun Friday

If you remember, a couple of weeks ago I spent an entire day with Olivia at doctor's offices, x-ray places and labs. Guess what I got to do on Friday? Yep. Lucky me.

Dan has been playing flag football after school for a couple of months. On Thursday, apparently he tackled someone and hurt his thumb. Being the good mommy I am, I figured he could tough it out and eventually he would get tired of complaining that it hurt. Friday morning arrived and not a single breath of "ow" escaped him before he left for school. So I went shopping.

Then the school nurse called me. I happen to be on a first name basis with Veronica. It seems that she calls me way more often than she should. In fact, I have been called more this year than I have in all previous years combined. It makes me wonder, what does this mean? That I am a *bad* mom? Or that my kids are whiners? Or that they are hypochondriacs? Am I over-thinking this? Let's hope so.

Anyway, she calls me while I am happily shopping at the mall. In between the lousy reception I manage to appreciate the fact that my tough sixth grader is in her office crying like a baby. (okay, I made that part up). She is concerned that his thumb is broken or has some serious soft tissue injury. She politely informs me that I should take him to see a doctor. Now, I figure since I went to nursing school I know a couple of things, and besides, I hate to waste time at doctor's offices. And since he didn't utter a single "ow" before school, I figured it was fine. But then the other part of me says, "you haven't really been a nurse for 10 years now (ouch), and you never did deal much with broken bones, so maybe she has a point". So that part of myself called the doctor. But I did finish a little shopping before I went to pick him up. (I had to satisfy both parts of myself. You understand, right?)

We had a fine time seeing the doctor. Amazingly enough, he was ON TIME!!! We were in and out of the office in 20 minutes and headed for an x-ray. Turns out the thumb is not broken, but he has a pretty serious strain. He got his splint for sympathy (too bad the girls won't see it until Monday), and we even got to keep the x-ray. I'm thinking it will be a cool Halloween decoration.

Who's the Leader of the Club?

M - I - C - K - E - Y !!!Isn't this the cutest suit ever? I really like it. The design was a product of mucho brain storming on the way to Cali a couple of weeks ago. Thanks for the help Kara, Jessie and Ann!! I think it turned out even cuter than I thought it would. Now I can't wait to have Nicki try it on!

Synchro Starts again...

It's synchro season again! Olivia had her first meet of the season on Saturday. (Just figures, no routines this time) She moved up an age group this year, into the 11-12 age group. So that means some stiffer competition. Not to worry, she did AWESOME!!! She finished 2nd! But the best part is, she beat the girl who she always finished second to last year!!! I was so excited and proud of Olivia's hard work. (And it's really nice to get lots of hugs from her!) It was great to see her (and her coach) so excited. Olivia had a grin on her face for the entire weekend. Congratulations, kiddo!

HELP!

I need an awesome $10 gift for the Ward Council Christmas Party this weekend. Any good ideas?

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